Wednesday, November 11, 2015

GO Fund me!

We started a Go funds page for some of the needs for Brock. 
We know its a long road ahead of him and us too. 
I know that we need to try to get him all the things he needs right now. 
So here we go! 
Brock Thomas's medical needs

Tuesday, October 27, 2015

Wordless Wednesday... Four years ago.

The boys turn 4 next Monday. 
To say that I am blessed is a understatement.
Not one day goes by that I don't thank God for giving me these two beautiful boys that call me Mama. 
For the two true loves of my life. 

Little Man

The boys together 

Little man on the left, B man on the right. 

B Man

Monday, October 26, 2015

Tempt my Tummy Tuesday ( Pot Roast)

Halloween is my Husbands birthday, for years we use to get a cake, make chili and hand out candy for our friends with kids.  It was our tradition something we enjoyed before having kids... This year we have to do the trick or treating with our own kids, so I need a quick and easy roast recipe. That way the birthday boy gets a good meal!   I found this one on Rae Drummon's website. She is my favorite cook and I love that she started out as a blogger. My dream come true is to be as big as Rae! SO here is a great recipe to have on hand for a great fall/winter go to meal....

Salt and freshly ground black pepper
One 3 to 5-pound chuck roast
2 or 3 tablespoons olive oil
2 whole onions, peeled and halved
6 to 8 whole carrots, unpeeled, cut into 2-inch pieces
1 cup red wine, optional
3 cups beef broth
2 or 3 sprigs fresh rosemary
2 or 3 sprigs fresh thyme

Preheat the oven to 275 degrees F.

Generously salt and pepper the chuck roast.

Heat the olive oil in large pot or Dutch oven over medium-high heat. Add the halved onions to the pot, browning them on both sides. Remove the onions to a plate.

Throw the carrots into the same very hot pot and toss them around a bit until slightly browned, about a minute or so. Reserve the carrots with the onions.

If needed, add a bit more olive oil to the very hot pot. Place the meat in the pot and sear it for about a minute on all sides until it is nice and brown all over. Remove the roast to a plate.

With the burner still on high, use either red wine or beef broth (about 1 cup) to deglaze the pot, scraping the bottom with a whisk. Place the roast back into the pot and add enough beef stock to cover the meat halfway.

Add in the onions and the carrots, along with the fresh herbs.

Put the lid on, then roast for 3 hours for a 3-pound roast. For a 4 to 5-pound roast, plan on 4 hours. The roast is ready when it's fall-apart tender.

2011 Ree Drummond, All Rights Reserved

Sunday, October 25, 2015

Mama needs to slow down...

I have been having a pretty hard time at this mother hood thing lately. 
Maybe because my little man has been having a very hard time lately, not just a little bit but a lot. He hasn't been listening lately and being sassy and pushing his boundaries.
 I told him "don't run, your going to fall and get hurt!" I say this every morning when we bring B man to the bus and we are on our way back down to the house. 

He doesn't listen. 
This time he doesn't just fall, he falls and slides, 
rips his jeans and bloodies his little hands, 
I run to get to him. 
Picking him up and carrying him to the living room. 
His sobs are making me get that large lump in my throat. 

As I clean him up,  
I whisper to him how brave he is and how there are just sometimes that super heros like him just need moments with their mamas  to let his little body take a time out to feel safe and rest in my arms.

As I try to just take in this small moment I am thinking...

My Kitchen sink is full.
The bathroom needs to be cleaned.
I needed to call the Dr's back, 
get B man that appointment with the Natural Path on the Island..
I've been waiting for months to get a call back to get in!

The list is growing but in this moment I am not going to do anything 
but hold my baby.

My motherhood moments, the filling up juice cups, the cleaning up cookie crumbs, the ups and downs, the highest of highs and the lowest of lows. 
These are the moments that make up my world. 
The times standing at the other side of the living room I have the feeling of being so antagonize at the amount of legos that are littering the floor.

The mornings when I am feeling so overwhelmed to get the boys out the door that I sound like a crazy person... I think I might just be crazy!  
There are so many days of me yelling for everyone to hurry up and wondering at the same time where I left my brain....

The moments that take us to the brink and you get pulled back in to the love of your motherhood. 

Those big Brown eyes that both boys get from me... 
that sweet smell they both have, the sweet smell of boy.

You will always have the days where you ask yourself, "what am I doing here?" "Are you freaking kidding me?" looking at the living room and thinking to myself and many times that I have said it out loud, 
"didn't we just clean this up?" It is about me learning that I am not perfect. My kids don't expect me to be perfect. 

They love me in my Yoga pants that I don't wear to yoga in..
Dancing around the house in my fuzzy slippers. Making them laugh. 
Even when I do yell, they still love me. 
So tonight as I was thinking back to this day...this Mama realized that the to do list can wait, the dirty dishes can stay in the sink, the latest blog post and anything at that moment can wait because my baby needs me. They are both growing so fast, the skinned knees and the boo boo's will stop wanting to be kissed and they wont want to cuddle. 

I need to not take the small moments for granted. To savor every little second, even the ones where I want to scream. To remember all those nights I would pray to become a mom.... To remember that in life it is about those simple moments that we often forget. It all adds up and those days that feel pointless are actually just plain beautiful….


Thursday, October 22, 2015

Hair at BPA

Last weekend I had the honor of checking out the BPA (Bainbridge Performing arts) production of Hair. To say that the production was amazing is a complete understatement.   I felt fully immersed right as I walked into the building itself. My heart was so happy with all of the hippies that were everywhere! The cast photos staring out at me as I was waiting to get into our seats.  Keeping with the theme, and keeping us entertained at the bar/concession area  with the Themed drinks! I had the Peace drink, with an amazing pear taste to it. We were also welcomed to put on temporary tattoos so we could get a little into character as well. I had my close friend Alysa with me, knowing that she is a hippie at heart I knew that she would love the chance to see the talented actors putting on this production for Hair! 
For those of you that have been living under a rock and have no idea what Hair is about....especially the 12 year old boy and his parents that were sitting behind me and made their shock well known in the opening act! Here is what the short summary of what its all about...Hair tells the story of the "tribe", a group of politically active hippies living a bohemian life in New York City and fighting against being drafted into the Vietnam War. Claude, his good friend Berger, their roommate Sheila and their friends struggle to balance their young lives, loves, and the sexual revolution with their rebellion against the war and the conservative society. Ultimately, Claude must decide whether to resist the draft as his friends have done, or to give into the pressures of his parents who are the faces of conservative America to serve in Vietnam, compromising his peaceful principles and risking his own life. THERE IS SEX, DRUGS, RACIST COMMENTS, NUDITY.....IN THIS PERFORMANCE!!!  
A talented cast that can rival Broadway puts it own spin on Hair as they interpret it and makes it come alive on the beautiful stage of the BPA theater.  Josh Anderson provides musical direction. Noah Duffy handles the choreography, both were able to transport you right to the 60's. 
Right out of the gate Olivia Lee who plays Ronny/ The dance Captain, captivated me as she bared it all in the opening, singing her heart out to Aquarius.  I know I wasn't the only one that was completely under her spell, the entire night I kept watching for her and seeking her out in the scenes. Never disappointing me she was able to mesmerize all of us with her amazing dance moves and singing. 
 Another star of the show was Ted Dowling as Berger threw himself into his part so well that I forgot that he was acting. His humor and on point performance of him dropping his pants in multiple scenes laughing and keeping the punch line in order, he also very much touched me with his performance as he played with the lead of the show Jesse Smith who played Claude. Together they stop at nothing short of showing us all their passion for acting and being part of this movement. The feelings were so raw and when Berger goes crazy over a Orange Sears shirt that Sheila played by the amazing actress Alison Monda you felt like you could relate as you remembered back to your first love and the end when it hit the breaking point.  Sheila was gripping as she poured her love for Berger and the hurt of his rejection out in the song Easy to be hard. The entire audience was silent in that very moment. 
My all time favorite part of the show was the outstanding performance of Michelle Lorenz Odell as she played the part of both Dionne and in this part she was playing the sweet lady Margaret Mead. In this scene she brought the humor and she commanded your attention as she belted out her first note until the last. Showing us her chops she used to get her vocal performance degree! My favorite part of the night was when she showed us what she had under that big coat! Oh and that giggle!!!! 
In watching this amazing performance play out right before my eyes, I was able to look around the room and think of how this musical was touching all the people around me. The couple to my left sat with tear stains on their cheeks during the scene of the war time. The mom's in front of me having a mom's night out when the song "Hair" was sang by the tribe they were all singing and dancing in their seats as they got carried away into the vibe.  The shocked sounds, gasps, and giggles from the crowd when the "tribe" all got naked in another epic scene. One scene a man who I know and love got chocked up by looking at his beautiful wife perform and sing a solo on stage. 
At the end of the evening, they closed with the song Let the Sunshine in.  The tears were not an act or fake at all, It was moving and beautiful and I sat there with the "tribe" I took a moment through my tear filled eyes looking around at the people around me and wondered how they were touched? If they were there or if they knew people that had lost their lives in Vietnam? Were they protestors? How were they touched by this? 
As Alysa and I drove home that night we talked about what we saw, how it made us feel and what we both thought of it.  I hope that the cast reads this and know just how many people that they have touched and most importantly made us talk. 

Tuesday, October 20, 2015

The Inn at Gig Harbor.

The begining of fall means going to new places and exploring places that are close enough to get from my house to a hotel, inn, or B&B  for just a tank of gas.   My mom and I just love Gig harbor and this summer when the The Inn at Gig Harbor asked me to come and check their hotel out and enjoy a night away I couldn't say No and could hardly wait to do the review.... Now when I  say away we got to get away with one kid not two! So it wasn't really away from it all.... Little man came with us. We picked him up from school and ran down to Gig Harbor. 

Checking in was easy and the manager during the day was so sweet and accommodating to us.  I forgot to let them know that my son was coming and that my mom has a seizure dog.  He didn't even skip a beat and got us in a bigger room! The lobby is so inviting and warm, the small attention to detail of the local charm that Gig harbor has.  The old photos that were in the lobby were so enjoyable to look at. Ever sense I was a little girl the Tacoma Narrows has completely freaked me out, seeing the picture made me feel those feelings all over again. Living in Tacoma for 4 years did help me get over that fear.... but the site of the photo made me remember why I was so fearful in the first place. 

The room was pretty basic two beds, nice view, tub and shower, mini fridge, desk, and a TV with basic cable and you can get a DVD player in the lobby.
 The bath gel, lotion and shampoo and conditioner were amazing!!! We didn't bring bubble bath and trying to get either of my boys to take a bath with out bubbles just doesn't work and the shower gel did the trick. 

They had plenty of blankets and extra pillows right there in the rooms closet and it was stocked with towels and hand towels and wash clothes. So it really was packed with all the things we needed or might need.  The thing I loved most about the room was the chair and lamp for me to have a spot that didn't bother my mom or little man, when they were both sound asleep so I could do some reading and writing.  It really was a great touch. 

They have a spa on site as well. I wasn't able to enjoy this at the time of my stay but I will be making sure when I go back to make an appointment.  You just have to book your spa experience when you check in or even better book the package that is called the Unwind  For $249.00 plus tax, you get a fireplace or Jacuzzi suite and two half hour massages, a bottle of wine or champagne delivered to your room and an a breakfast for the next morning!   When I do come back with the hubs this is the package that we would like to try.  I can't promise to not ask him for his half hour massage so I can get a full hour! 
There is a Golf package and a Seven Seas ( Brewery ) package. That would be what the hubs would want to try! 
Their onsite resturant is called  The Heritage Restaurant was very nice and quaint. It was very convenient to have a down home cooking type restaurant in our hotel. I could see for people here on business how this would be a total bonus.  I have to say that I had the vegetarian omelet and it was amazing! It came with toast, and two eggs. My mom had the eggs Benedict and she said it was good, not the best and not the worst she has had just the middle of the road. My little man had the Mickey Mouse pancakes and bacon and he ate almost all of that and for one picky eater this is big!! 

Monday, October 19, 2015

Getting ready for the holidays... This Friday will be our 9 week count down.

Getting deals for the holidays.......

The holidays are drawing near and every week, I will try and give you one good deal on Mondays to help you be a thrift shopper. 

The holidays shouldn't be so stressful, we shouldn't try and kill ourselves over them and spend all our money trying to compete with the Jones's. 
Who are these people anyway?...

I love the pintrest post about getting meaning back to the holiday season....
4 gift for each child.
1) Something to read.
2) Something to wear.
3) Something to they want.
4) Something they need.

So here is something that will help get you the something to wear.....

Calling all Gymbree fans you are going to love this sale!! Right now at Gymboree you can get a whopping 40% off everything sitewide!!! Plus all clearance is 50% off!! This is going to make for STEALS on super cute kids clothing!